I would be remiss to not say this with care and utmost respect. Our marriage beds can be the area of our marriages where oftentimes the war is conceded–on the losing end to the gain and spoil of the enemy rather than to the glory of God– as husbands and wives fight the wrong battles. Holy marriage ground is defiled when a spouse engages in adultery, sexual immorality, as well as, sexual rebellion or manipulation. There are husbands and wives who refuse to make love to their spouses because they do not feel like actively participating in helping them to create a fulfilling sex life. Many fall prey to their own feelings and believe and trust what they feel–feelings that they are either not desirable at all or less desirable than what society says is what makes a person desirable; Feelings of inadequacy that they cannot fulfill their spouse; misguided feelings that a passionate marriage bed involves degrading experience that is reflective of worldly love for pornography; feelings that they can control or get their way by being manipulative and withholding sex out of vengeance or anger. Don’t allow the enemy to gain a foothold in your marriage bed. Marriage is honorable and God intends for a couple to lovingly, unselfishly, passionately, honorably, devotedly, physically manifest His spoken Word that the husband and wife are indeed one-flesh. That brings glory to God! Sexual intimacy between a husband and wife is powerful spiritual work. Their flesh joins to communicate between their souls the unseen power and the Holy Spirit can help them to heal, mend some things that talking just can’t do! The Holy Spirit can move within them and through them to help them grow closer –more tightly-knit and God can rekindle the places that are neglected or broken down in their marriage bed. When there are intimacy problems, the enemy will bring temptation along. Instead of becoming a player, remain steadfast and faithful as a wife or husband of PRAYER. Prayer can move the dust off the marriage bed and shake the cobwebs from each corner. God can bring dead things back to LIFE! If you need God to do this for you, just invite Him to help you and HE WILL! Lord God 🙏🏽
Give husbands a desire that is for and only quenched by their own wives! Let them quench their sexual desires only in their wives’ cistern. Let each husband and wife feel the flames of passion burn brightly for their spouses and a willingness to bring you glory in their marriage beds. Keep temptations far from us and deliver spouses of anything or anyone that prevents them from having an honorable marriage bed that is glorious and fulfilling. Teach and show all spouses how to love one another with the enjoyment you intend for us. In Jesus’ name we pray, Amen.
Hebrews 13:4, KJV~ “Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge.”
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